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Glamourpuss
_files/bilde(33).jpg) My friend
Jerry
Popolis in New York (and PA) does hair and makeup for the movies.
He's worked on the sets of Spiderman II, Stepford Wives, Michael
Clayton, Savage Grace, Lie Down with Dogs, The Forgotten, The
Producers and many
other movies that we've all seen and enjoyed. He makes the celebs
totally unforgettable.
He's worked with many of my favorites like Bette Midler, Glenn Close, Nicole Kidman,
Julianne Moore (that's him doing her above), and he's now Robert
DeNiro's personal stylist. His full list of credits are on
IMDB.
Mark my words - one day he's going to be an Oscar winner for his
great work. Here's an
article recently
written about him.
Jerry and his spouse,
Alberto
got married in P-town and have been refurbishing an old
farmhouse
in Eastern Pennsylvania. They've done a beautiful job
bringing this gem back to life. They've made it so warm and
inviting... their gardens and landscaping look totally like Martha
Stewart has been tending to them. Great job boys!
When I bought my Phoenix house it was, from a surface level, a
house that many people could move into easily and be very happy.
I loved the bones, layout, giant windows and views, but I knew
that I'd be doing a lot of changing, decorating and remodeling
since I'm not a fan of cheap materials and mucho beige. As
it turns out, I'll probably have changed every square inch of this
place before I consider myself done. It's March 16, 2008 as
I write this, my 3 year anniversary - so I thought I'd try to show
some of the bigger projects and the evolution. It's still a
work in progress:
exterior
The
exterior of the house hadn't been painted since it was built 10
years ago. Although it was well covered, it was faded, and
of course, beige! Our HOA finally started to allow more than
2 colors (both beige) and now at least I had 10 shades of brown
from which to choose. One shade was a dark sepia with a
golden tint so I went with that and a darker brown trim. It
now looks different from the other neighbors and adds a lot of
curb appeal. Click the pictures link or the thumbnail above
for before and after shots.
Pictures
Powder Room
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The Powder Room downstairs was one of the easy "just get it done"
kind of projects that had to happen right away. The previous
owners tried an orange and brown wall paint technique that made it
look as though someone spread ca-ca all over the place. It
almost made me heave to walk in. It's not
done... I've done little to it since just to get the basics in.
I of course re-painted and changed out the pedestal sink with a
glass vessel sink and nice faucet. One day I'll change out
the floor and put a little more decor inside.
Picture
Kitchen

One of the other first projects I tackled was the kitchen.
I hated the Formica countertops, the porcelain white tile on the
floor and the shiny black appliances and sink - so I had slab
granite countertops installed, and replaced the fridge,
dishwasher, and cook-top with stainless steel. I replaced
the sink with ivory Silegranite and the faucet with a modern
gooseneck. I also replaced a dated built-in desk with two
wine refrigerators and then added the finishing touches with
ancient Durango stone on the floor, backsplash, and entry wall.
Pictures
bar
The 'dining room'
has sliders going out to the pool. It's also set up so that
if you did put a table and chairs in it, you'd have to walk around
all the furniture to get outside or into the kitchen, totally
breaking up the flow I like in this house, which is total
circulation (great for parties). As a single guy who would
rather have a buffet party rather than a sit-down dinner, I don't
need a formal dining room. Besides, it's Arizona where we
grill and eat outdoors... and I'm an old lush, so I needed a bar!
Pictures
Office
The previous home
owners moved the original door on the office. When they did
so, someone patched the old hole so poorly that you could always
see the door outline on a wall that now went up the full two
stories in the living room. It also broke up the office so
strangely, that you couldn't really arrange furniture well because
there was either a door, a window, or an inset on every wall.
They also used a cheap short ugly door. I moved the opening
back to the original location and put in an 8 foot tall reeded
glass door. We patched up the former spot (but my guy did it
so well you'd never know) and I repainted everything. It
looks great, seems more natural to the flow, adds a break and some
scale to that very tall wall in the living room, and I now have a
solid wall where I can build shelving or put bookcases.
Pictures
MASTER SUITE
The master suite
had a great layout with a balcony, a sitting room and a
double-sided fireplace. The issues I had were with the half
wall between the sitting room and the bedroom; the fireplace
facade was covered in cheap white porcelain tile; and there was
the same beige Berber carpeting as was everywhere else in
the house. Also, the previous homeowners never used the
fireplace (it had gas pipes but no setup). I opened up the
sitting room, changed the fireplace facade, put the fire on
remote, changed out the flooring and repainted everything.
Pictures
Flooring
There was cheap
beige Berber carpeting everywhere in this house both upstairs and
down. Although I had it cleaned before moving in, I could
barely stand the idea that I was living with the hair, dust, skin,
and who knows what else of the previous homeowners buried beneath
my bare feet. I also couldn't stand the look as it was
semi-worn and loose in some spots. I put Malasian Merbau
hardwood floors in every room downstairs and replaced all the
carpeting upstairs with a thick plush.
Pictures
POOL
A pool in Phoenix
is a necessity. The back yard of this house was nothing but
dirt on top of rock. It was a hard dig (requiring 48 hours
of massive jack-hammering). It's a custom design but a
familiar look. You'll see similar pools in Arizona that are meant
to blend into the desert atmosphere. I added new touches by
using Flagstone in some spots and real granite boulders (rather
than cement faux rocks). I had a heater / cooler installed,
cleaner jets, a waterfall, and added a built in bench with spa
jets.
Pictures
landscaping
The cost overruns
on the pool obliterated my land- scaping budget. After
getting a ridiculously outrageous bid of $10000 for a few shrubs,
I decided to do the yard myself. I wanted a desert xeriscape
to go with the look of the pool. I put in mixed cacti and
succulents, blended with some Ocotillo and purple fountain grass.
I covered it all with decorative rock cover, and installed
landscape lighting.
Pictures
People & places
_files/bilde(30).jpg) May 19-23
2006: My boys
Rich and
Walt
came to visit. It was their first time out west so we took a
great road
trip. We started out around Phoenix, and then headed on the
road to Sedona. We hiked up Cathedral Mountain, found a watering hole, then took an
incline hike through a Pine forest. We finished out that day
with a picnic and headed out again toward Flagstaff for a big steak
dinner, drinks and music.
Next, we drove to the Grand Canyon. We hiked in, camped
out, came up and then headed toward Hoover
Dam and Las Vegas. In Vegas, we stayed at the Luxor pyramid
and had front row (wet) seats to see Cirque du
Soleil's "O" at the Bellagio.
We rode the rollercoaster at New York New York, hit the
pool at the Luxor and the shopping trail at the Venetian,
Caesar's Palace and Paris. (I saw Celine Dion in the
Venetian, heading into one of the restaurants). I walked
the entire strip and won $480 on the slots for my effort. We ate at Postrio
our last night and
while I headed toward bed, the boys ended up at MGM Grand to hit
on the girls.
Pictures
Oct 26-29
2007: Jim & Joey flew in from Ft Lauderdale and Don &
Rodney came in from Dayton. The five of us packed up our
backpacks and headed North for our big Grand Canyon adventure. We started at the South Rim and
hiked down into the canyon, loaded up with water, Gatorade and
plenty of salty snacks.
It normally takes twice as long to get back up as it takes to get
down, but we made it back up in about the same time. We
didn't stop to take so many pictures on the way up, so we made
good time. I was unfortunately the weak link in the chain
gang this time as I racked my knees on the way down. The impact of
putting my body weight into every step down just inflamed the
tissue in my knee caps. I was in quite a bit
of pain for the climb out. It started getting a little scarier when I would
stop and my knees would lock up.
Anyway, after eating 'Aleve' like candy, drinking plenty of vodka,
and getting in the hot tub, my knees got a little better.
That's Jim standing out on the ledge in the Thumbnail above.
You can click on the thumbnail to enlarge it. See the
slideshow of all our pictures here (or by
clicking the headline above).
vaca cruise
_files/bilde(34).jpg) Oct 28-Nov 4
2006: I took my first gay vacation cruise. I was on the
Diamond Princess through the Mexican Riviera with 7 other
friends. After flying into Los Angeles, the ship took
us to
Puerto Vallarta,
Cabo San Lucas and
Mazatlan. It was a seven day RSVP cruise on one of the
largest ships in the Princess Cruise Lines fleet. The
ship had 4 pools, lots of restaurants and bars, a spa and many
other amenities. It offered an eat-anywhere-anytime service
which was dangerous after losing a bunch of weight, but I did very
well and kept it off.
Glamourpuss
_files/bilde(33).jpg) Isn't
this the coolest thing? My friend
Jerry
Popolis in New York does hair and makeup for the movies.
He's worked on the sets of Spiderman, Stepford Wives, and many
other movies that we've all seen, and makes the celebs striking
and unforgettable. He gets to rub elbows and dish the dirt
with people like Bette Midler, Glenn Close, Nicole Kidman, etc.
Here he is doing Julianne Moore's fabulous red hair. What a
glamorous life! His equally gorgeous partner
Alberto
works at the United Nations in NYC. Jerry is currently
working on a Martin Scorsese movie in Boston.
My
super talented friend Rick
flips houses and always does a remarkable job.
Unfortunately, the market in South Florida has turned (as it has
everywhere else) and he's got a real challenge to sell them
quickly. Luckily he has other skills and great looks, so
he's done some commercials and has done some recent fitness and
lifestyle modeling. Click the link or thumbnail to see some
of his professional pictures.
If you've been in
my house and admired the artwork, chances are you have been
admiring the work of my friend Jim Kiselica (sounds like
Kiss-Lick-uh). I fell in love with his work when I first moved to
Ft. Laud and have been lucky
enough to get 8 of his originals. All of his originals are oil on
canvas and represent everything from the realistic architecture of
Key West and Europe to Hollywood icons and impressionistic
landscapes. Click on the headline above to go to Jim's site
and see his work. Most of the
originals are gone, but you can still get prints and giclees of
almost all of his work.
Did I tell you that Jimmy and his partner Joey are as beautiful as
Jim's artwork?
Hey, we've got to admire our friends who add beauty to the world,
be it from art, or from just standing there. You can see
their Christmas picture
here.
Jim and Joey are great friends and I'm very happy to have them
both in my life.
March 29 2006: My niece Christin and her husband Sam brought Abby Lynn
Hurwitz into the world to join her sister Madison. My
brother Vince is a grandpa, and
my parents are great-grandparents. For me, I've just
officially received the title I've deserved all along, which is
"Great Uncle". Pics:
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
Nick is so butch
_files/bilde(32).jpg) Well this
was just too funny to pass up and not publicize... Many thanks to
Allan Fetherolf for passing this on. It's a photo stored
away in the Arts Council in Ohio of our dear friend and matriarch
rehearsing for "West Side Story", sometime back in the late 70's.
Somehow I don't remember the Anglo Jets or the Puerto Rican Sharks
wearing "Daisy Dukes" - or is he playing the part of Maria?
That would be more fitting. I mean, just look at the
luxurious silky hair and shaved legs. Natalie Wood eat your
heart out. Click on the thumbnail or headline to see an enlarged
version.
_files/bilde(31).jpg) The Mini
is now over a year old and I'm still having fun. It's taken
me on quite a few road trips to Sedona, Vegas, Flagstaff, etc. and
of course takes me to work every day with a little style.
What's best is at the end of a hard day at work, my little Mini
puts a smile on my face... At least until I get on the road
and face traffic once again. Click on the thumbnail and headline to see a fairly accurate
representation of the car.
There was a
Burger King website promoting their tie-in with the Simpson's
movie last year. It allowed you to take a picture
of yourself and have it 'Simpsonized'. I posted my take
here. I think Steve Simpson looks quite a bit like me,
don't you? You can click on the thumbnail above to see a
larger version of "Steve
Simpson".
Yes folks, I was up to
236 pounds in mid-October '05. By April
'06,
I was holding steady between 155 and 160, which
is 75-80 pounds lost. I've actually gone lower here and
there but when I do, I usually splurge on a cheeseburger or
some ice cream. No need for manorexia! It's 2 years
later and I've kept it all off. I've attached some fuzzy pics
that I took in front of the mirror.
Before
After1
After2
After3
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